There are times when we go through tough situations or the ones around us do. At that very moment, we are likely to advise the other person that they shouldn't take people's talks seriously, not allow anyone hurt them, ignore the bullies and so on. But what I actually have realized is that giving an advise to a person in a mess is easy but being in their place with the horrid feelings they have is a tough situation to handle! Saying or advising is easy but actually doing it is tough. I or you might advise someone in a problem but only the person going through the pain knows it ain't easy buddy. =) Right ?